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St.Paul, Minnesota • I have a Dog named Dave

My advice for a girl on how to handle a guy who wants something more than being best friends.


Riiight okay so I’m recently single and just found out one of my oldest and bestest friends has liked me for ages. I was staying at his house a few weeks back and he was being, like, uncomfortably… Couply?

And so I kinda thought I’d just take a break from seeing him for a bit while I get my head sorted after my break up and now he has kinda invited himself over and I dunno what to do because I’m really scared he is gonna try something and I don’t want to have to say no because I so don’t feel that way.

We have always said how incredibly platonic we are but I’ve kinda realised its more than that for him. And basically I dunno what to do about it. He doesn’t have all that many friends and I can’t lose him and how our friendship is now is just amazing and I really don’t want to change it but….basically GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR


Anonymous asked:
Are you any good at advice? :/

Yes— I am quite good at advice!

In fact… if I could give you one piece of advice, it’d be this:
I’m good at advice.